Why invest in a Coach?
If you are experiencing the trauma and complexity of a relationship breakdown, heading towards, or on a breakup or divorce journey, you might recognise yourself in some of the questions below.
In your relationship do you feel.....
🔲 Communication has broken down?
🔲 Exhausted by the emotional roller coaster?
🔲 Overwhelmed on every level?
🔲 Guilty for not trying harder to fix the relationship?
🔲 Stuck on the hamster wheel of “should I go, or should I stay?”
🔲 Constantly worried about the impact on your children? Both now, and in the future?
🔲 Disbelief to discover your partner is having an affair?
🔲 Guilty for having an affair, and uncertain how to navigate the future?
🔲 Devastated that your partner has told you they are leaving?
Why invest in me?
In January 2016 I stepped out of my 19-year marriage, which, from my perspective, was broken beyond repair.
My two boys were aged four and six at the time, and I experienced rather too many of the feelings outlined above. I have first-hand experience of rebuilding a life with a thoroughly altered landscape from the one I had envisaged.
My journey felt long, lonely, scary and difficult with a plethora of emotional landmines negotiated along the way. I have chosen this coaching career path because I don't want your journey to replicate mine.I transitioned step-by-step from a place of fear, disconnect, and chaos into a place of peace and clarity.
Nowadays I have a clear sense of purpose and direction, so I wholeheartedly know what is possible. As a result I now love life again.I bring to the table a combination of my lived experience, my certified and accredited Divorce Coach training, and a 36-year nursing career. Having specialised in both Paediatrics and A&E, supporting families to navigate trauma and crises, was a key aspect of my daily role.
I provide a safe and non-judgmental space for you to share your current reality. This generates our starting point, and then, using the medium of questioning, I can support you as you create a road map into your new future. If you would like to explore how I can support you, please reach out for a conversation.
How my Coaching helps?
Would you like to.....
🔲 Feel seen and heard?
🔲 Make sense of the confusion you feel?
🔲 Have a safe space to talk openly without fear of being judged?
🔲 Feel that someone else “gets it”?
🔲 Understand the emotions you are experiencing?
🔲 Experience a reduction in the feelings of overwhelm, fear and anxiety?
🔲 Feel hope that there is a way forward?
🔲 Figure things out with support?
🔲 Have a sense of balance in your world?
🔲 Stay in your relationship?
🔲 Improve your communication and listening skills?
🔲 Become aware of habits and patterns that may not be serving you well?
🔲 Be prepared for your solicitors' and other appointments?
🔲 Find your authentic voice?
🔲 Have someone in your corner who can see what you can’t?
🔲 Create the road map to a future that you would like to live in?
WHAT IF....you didn't have to go?
WHAT IF....you began to understand your world in relation to your habits, patterns, reactions and dynamics?
WHAT IF....changes you initiate create an opening for new possibilities in your relationship?
I believe that this is always worth exploring with my clients, because I know that sometimes we have choices that we aren't aware of.
